💔 Do You Love Me?

John 21:17

Three times Peter denied the Lord. Now, by the flicker of a seaside fire, the risen Christ looks into Peter’s eyes and asks him not, “Why did you fail?” or “What were you thinking?”—but something far more piercing:

“Do you love Me?” (John 21:17)

This isn’t a question of shame. It’s a question of restoration. Jesus is not reopening the wound—He is rewiring the heart. The same mouth that once denied Him will now be used to feed His sheep. But it starts with love.

1️⃣ The Place of Restoration

Peter had returned to fishing—back to the familiar. But Jesus came to find him. And He found him at the same kind of setting where it all began: the shore, a net, a call.

John 21:9 – “They saw a fire of coals there…”

That detail matters. The only other time a “fire of coals” is mentioned in John is in 18:18—where Peter warmed his hands as he denied Christ. Now, by a similar fire, Jesus will undo the sting of failure with the balm of forgiveness.

🧠 Insight:

Jesus often brings us back to the place of failure—not to shame us, but to restore us.

2️⃣ The Question That Heals

Jesus asks not once, not twice, but three times: “Do you love Me?”

This mirrors Peter’s three denials—one question for each failure. But the question itself is a gift. It’s an invitation to re-align the heart, not just the hands.

Jesus does not say, “Are you ready to lead?” or “Will you promise to do better?” He asks, “Do you love Me?”

Because ministry without love is machinery.
Discipleship without devotion is dead.

3️⃣ The Love That Leads to Mission

Each time Peter affirms his love, Jesus responds:

“Feed My lambs.”
“Tend My sheep.”
“Feed My sheep.”

Love becomes the launchpad for leadership. Restoration leads to responsibility.

2 Corinthians 5:14 – “The love of Christ constraineth us…”

Jesus doesn’t discard the fallen. He recommissions the broken. But only after rooting their calling in love.

📝 Preaching Note: This is not a guilt-trip—it’s a grace-call. The question is not “What have you done?” but “Do you still love Me?”

📖 Scriptures That Confirm Restoration Through Love

Romans 8:35 – “Who shall separate us from the love of Christ?”
1 Peter 4:8 – “Love covers a multitude of sins.”
Psalm 51:10–13 – “Create in me a clean heart… then will I teach transgressors…”
Luke 7:47 – “He who is forgiven much, loves much.”

🧭 Final Reflection: Answer the Question

“Do you love Me?” — Jesus is still asking. Not because He doesn’t know—but because we need to say it.